NARRATIVE ESSAY

WHAT IS LOVE ? <3

" Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy’ Anger, tears, laughter,
    It's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another. "

Where LOVE came from ?  it’s started by simple thing it is what we called CRUSH it means someone else may feel the way you do about you. Just remember that it’s only a crush no matter how strong . all of us know how to feel it , in myself i felt crush when i was young and i have many crushes , actually i know that it’s natural , but when the time comes i’m on my 3rd year high school ,i saw a cute guy he’s name is Richard he was played volleyball on the court of our school ( TNHS ) . i knew that i have a crush to him , because of him cute face , a talent on playing a volleyball , and being a dancer ahihi :D When the time goes , i minded that we’re got closed to each other , because my friend MACKQOI is also him friend , because of that we’ve been together sometimes , when mackqoi found that i have a crush on Richard he never tired to annoyed me .hahaha , i just smile when he did it . but ? when we’re eternal bonding to each other i din’t know what i already felt it is LOVE ?

What is love ? is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment , is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion and affection .I believe Love is the basis of harmonic relationship and gracious giving and receiving,  it’s the thing that god's gift to us  that we can share to every individuals The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes ‘ love can show by sharing , caring . protecting , understanding , concerning and the most important is respecting . LOVE is do what makes you happy , be with who make you smile , laugh as much as you breathe , love as long as you live .. as i human being i knew that if  the love comes it’s not easy to stop specially when the time you already felt it , like what happened to me before ‘my first loved i felt in love with Richard who i can said not deserves to be loved :( i gave all that i can but he doesn’t cared about it ‘ he always accepted that but he never appreciated everything that i’ve done for him , i didn't if he really love me too ? although base of what i heard, i saw and i felt from him ‘i knew it HE DOESN’T LOVE ME ANYMORE .    huhuhuhu .. : ((  he made me hurt so much !!! because of that i can said that i dont know how to feel the love again .

We have called a Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships, such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples .

TRUE LOVE find arms that will hold you at your weakest , at your ugliest , and a HEART that will LOVE you worst .it's patient, is kind, it doesn’t envy, it doesn’t boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. exactly it really hard to find .

"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.”

—I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

This verse describes the characteristics of true love. These qualities can certainly be found in the person of Jesus Christ, and they can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem with trying to “find” love in our dating lives, is that too often we don't look for these characteristics. Rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth. These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.

But the LORD said to Samuel, “ The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

-- I Samuel 16:7 b (NIV)

Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action true love.

Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with ACTIONS and in truth .

-- I John 3:18 (NIV)

LONS DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

How it can be TRUE LOVE ? hmm .. for me nothing is imposible unless he believes on yourself , i do believe that it's probability to be a true love ' its depends to the Lovers or partners ' the most important characteristics in terms of this kind of relationship is the TRUST it should be the bridge in your relationship ' like what i've did :) i met a guy only on my facebook account , jeyk is him name actually he is the boy friend of one of my close friend ' but when the time that they relationship was gone jeyk hurt so much he always cry he asked my friend if what reason that he decided to end they relationship , but my friend can't talked to him that's why jeyk try to talked with me like, i think he made this for him pass time ahehe , through out of my mind jeyk asked me if he should courting me ? uhmm i said yes there's nothing wrong for that , after almost 1 week i answered him , i said yes we're Lover now !it was on may 24 2010 ( first day of my college life ) , because of trust we made our relationship strong more than we expected actually ,he always said  i'm so glad that i have you babhie . i felt so much in high spirit because of him ..we're 3 months commiting each other right now but ' instand i knew that i'am tired for our relationship , i believe on that moment my loved to him was just started to stop .. 

DISTANCE BETWEEN TWO HEARTS IS NOT AN OBSTICAL RATHER   
A GREAT  REMINDER OF JUST HOW STRONG TRUE LOVE CAN BE .. <3

 

PRE-MARITAL SEX

They said if you truly love someone your ready to give everything , even in sex ? NO! Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The Bible says that when two people are married, they become one flesh (Ephesians 5:31). Sex is consummation of that union. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. In light of I Corinthians 13:4-8.it is easy to see that premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

IDENTIFYING TRUE LOVE

We can only identify true love and know when we have found it, based on the Word of God. When we match our relationships up to what the Bible says that love is and we are honestly prepared to make a life-long commitment to that person , then we can say that we are truly “in love.” The three keys to that statement are:

We have to…

1. Look at the Word of God
2. Be completely honest with ourselves

3. Understand the level of commitment that comes with true love