NARRATIVE ESSAY

WHAT IS LOVE ? <3

" Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy’ Anger, tears, laughter,
    It's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another. "

Where LOVE came from ?  it’s started by simple thing it is what we called CRUSH it means someone else may feel the way you do about you. Just remember that it’s only a crush no matter how strong . all of us know how to feel it , in myself i felt crush when i was young and i have many crushes , actually i know that it’s natural , but when the time comes i’m on my 3rd year high school ,i saw a cute guy he’s name is Richard he was played volleyball on the court of our school ( TNHS ) . i knew that i have a crush to him , because of him cute face , a talent on playing a volleyball , and being a dancer ahihi :D When the time goes , i minded that we’re got closed to each other , because my friend MACKQOI is also him friend , because of that we’ve been together sometimes , when mackqoi found that i have a crush on Richard he never tired to annoyed me .hahaha , i just smile when he did it . but ? when we’re eternal bonding to each other i din’t know what i already felt it is LOVE ?

What is love ? is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment , is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion and affection .I believe Love is the basis of harmonic relationship and gracious giving and receiving,  it’s the thing that god's gift to us  that we can share to every individuals The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes ‘ love can show by sharing , caring . protecting , understanding , concerning and the most important is respecting . LOVE is do what makes you happy , be with who make you smile , laugh as much as you breathe , love as long as you live .. as i human being i knew that if  the love comes it’s not easy to stop specially when the time you already felt it , like what happened to me before ‘my first loved i felt in love with Richard who i can said not deserves to be loved :( i gave all that i can but he doesn’t cared about it ‘ he always accepted that but he never appreciated everything that i’ve done for him , i didn't if he really love me too ? although base of what i heard, i saw and i felt from him ‘i knew it HE DOESN’T LOVE ME ANYMORE .    huhuhuhu .. : ((  he made me hurt so much !!! because of that i can said that i dont know how to feel the love again .

We have called a Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships, such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples .

TRUE LOVE find arms that will hold you at your weakest , at your ugliest , and a HEART that will LOVE you worst .it's patient, is kind, it doesn’t envy, it doesn’t boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. exactly it really hard to find .

"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.”

—I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

This verse describes the characteristics of true love. These qualities can certainly be found in the person of Jesus Christ, and they can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem with trying to “find” love in our dating lives, is that too often we don't look for these characteristics. Rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth. These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.

But the LORD said to Samuel, “ The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

-- I Samuel 16:7 b (NIV)

Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action true love.

Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with ACTIONS and in truth .

-- I John 3:18 (NIV)

LONS DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

How it can be TRUE LOVE ? hmm .. for me nothing is imposible unless he believes on yourself , i do believe that it's probability to be a true love ' its depends to the Lovers or partners ' the most important characteristics in terms of this kind of relationship is the TRUST it should be the bridge in your relationship ' like what i've did :) i met a guy only on my facebook account , jeyk is him name actually he is the boy friend of one of my close friend ' but when the time that they relationship was gone jeyk hurt so much he always cry he asked my friend if what reason that he decided to end they relationship , but my friend can't talked to him that's why jeyk try to talked with me like, i think he made this for him pass time ahehe , through out of my mind jeyk asked me if he should courting me ? uhmm i said yes there's nothing wrong for that , after almost 1 week i answered him , i said yes we're Lover now !it was on may 24 2010 ( first day of my college life ) , because of trust we made our relationship strong more than we expected actually ,he always said  i'm so glad that i have you babhie . i felt so much in high spirit because of him ..we're 3 months commiting each other right now but ' instand i knew that i'am tired for our relationship , i believe on that moment my loved to him was just started to stop .. 

DISTANCE BETWEEN TWO HEARTS IS NOT AN OBSTICAL RATHER   
A GREAT  REMINDER OF JUST HOW STRONG TRUE LOVE CAN BE .. <3

 

PRE-MARITAL SEX

They said if you truly love someone your ready to give everything , even in sex ? NO! Because premarital sex is not love, it only leads to pain and disappointment for those who are seeking that love. The Bible says that when two people are married, they become one flesh (Ephesians 5:31). Sex is consummation of that union. When two people break off their relationship after having sex, it is like ripping apart flesh. This is why two teenagers will struggle so much and become so dependent on those they give their bodies to. In light of I Corinthians 13:4-8.it is easy to see that premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

IDENTIFYING TRUE LOVE

We can only identify true love and know when we have found it, based on the Word of God. When we match our relationships up to what the Bible says that love is and we are honestly prepared to make a life-long commitment to that person , then we can say that we are truly “in love.” The three keys to that statement are:

We have to…

1. Look at the Word of God
2. Be completely honest with ourselves

3. Understand the level of commitment that comes with true love

DESCRIPTIVE ESSAY

FOREVER BESTFRIEND

Do you have a best friend ?

Who is he/she ?
 He/she is a real best friend ?

In our life friends are so important , and to all friends that we have we're always looking for the only one that can be our the best friend ,  

best friend is what everyonone want to has . I’m so proud that i have i want to share to all of you what kind of best friend that i have , i do this for a thank you to him for everything he done for me , and to show how much i love him .. <3

My best friend name is khevin Gonzales , he was born on june 27 1993 , he’s 17 years old now . he’s a gay also have a small eye , a cute lips and a very pointed nose . he so slim , has a very long nails on him hand and he favorite to put a colourful nail polish to that haha ! the color of skin that he has is a very fair ( KAYUMANGGI ) .
we're classmate since when we're on elementary until on our 3rd year high school .. i can't with him when i was on 4th year because he stoped him studying. And now he's currently running for one of those SK KAGAWAD on our Barangay Tangos.

He's very jealousing person ‘ even in a simple things hehe ^^ when the time comes that he can’t talk with me and i was surprised that he avoiding me , i already knew that he angry or jealous , i was thinking if why ? even i don’t have any bad things that i did to him .. hmm ‘ but i was wrong , because it’s not him attitude that can be angry ? for a no reason .hihi that’s why i knew that i did wrong ‘ even not to him but to the others . because he’s very corcerned to me if he said he wants that i'l follow it haha , like he always said , eat your food ‘ if i answered maybe later , he always made me afraid if i’m not followed what he said . haha . he said that ‘ KUKUTUSAN KITA ! hahaha him expression to me :D .
he also sweet like the others ‘. if one of us has a money we’re go outside to bought a food and eat together , sometimes he shy to me he doesn’t wants to accept what i gave . hmp ! on that situation i got to hate him  because i think it’s unfair ! all he gave is i accepted immediately ..i want that he also did too what i did !

We’re always be together every night in our hang out , sometimes our other friends got jealoused to us because they said we’re like a brothers hahaha .. we called each other as BESY ..often we go to our house in a late time, we cook a food and talking for those happenings , i’m so very open to him because i trusted him as my best friend if i have a secret i totally shared it to him . but he is not like me , he always keep him secret for himself he doesn’t wants to share it to anyone , if he had him problem he always said i can it ! he doesn’t wants to share it specially to me because he doesn’t want that i thinking him own problem .. because of that sometimes we've had a miss understanding , i said we’re best friend right ? so we have a responsible to help each other , so if that simple thing you can’t shared to me ? for what reason’s we’re best friend ? huhuhu .. so sad , but after that he realized what i’m said about .

I’l never forgot when he was on my side to sleep with me on my room we talked about many things of course our Lovelife ahihhi :”> he was talked and talked while he cares that i’m already slept hahaha .. after few hours we woke up cause i need to go school to attend my class and he acts like a mother that caring on her son ( so weet ) in that time he cooked some foods for my breakfast , got my uniform to iron it ,. while i’m taking a bath on the comport room he never stop to fixed all i needs , he always did it everytime he was sleeping on our home ..

But the most reason why can i proudly say that he’s my real best friend , because he’s ready to sacrifice all the things for me . even the person that he loved so much .. i can’t believe that he did it for me ‘ he loved that person in almost 2 years , that person very close to me , and actually i loved him too , but i did my best to stoped what i felt to him , specially when i know that my besy loved him too much , but i’m so sad because it’s too late‘ in that time , i didn’t know what to do ? i try to talk my Besy but i can’t ! he constantly keep away from me , and our other friends got angry with me when they knew about it .. i’just pray to fixed our problem , god’s give me a chance , then i saw my besy i immediately go to him and talked about our problem ‘i explained and said sorry ! after i said all i want to explained he talk too , then after all the challenges ang problem we encountered  we’re still strong .. .. I'm so much miss him right now ! i can say that we're BEST FRINED until to the last beath of our heart ..

besy thank you so much

i Love you like the

way you love me <3 !!

( Compare and Contrast )

"BEKIMON V.S JEJEMON "

These are the two types of upgraded languages that currently the youth use , it is so very popular specially for those teenager ‘ i’m think they like to use these languages because this is their style or fashion in terms of communicating to the others , but the most reason why use or apply it because they like to follow the flow . This also caused TV Shows having many many debates and news about Jejemons and bekimons .Plus, bands writing songs about them, that's why its became so popular to everyone . They are commonly found here in the Philippines .

Bekimon The term bekimon (beki is a colloquial word for "gay") took off from the growing popularity of the jejemon subculture, which refers to those who deliberately exaggerate ordinary words by adding or subtracting letters, or by using a mixture of upper-case and lower-case letters, in written communication . basically it is the language for those gays or homosexual ( gay lingo ) , but even the other genders can use it . it is have a long time used , here sometimes they are totally change the whole word of the word .. bekimons have a EXPANDED MIND in the way of using in their own words , they need it to become easily gets or understand what they said about . Most of the terms that bekimons commonly use are alterations of basic Filipino and English words such as workibells (work),kalurkey  (kaloka or crazy), teh (ate or sister), anekwaboom (ano or what) and heller (hello).

Just like President Benigno "Noynoy" Aquino III, Persia delivered a so-called State of the Nation Address (SONA) as the chief executive of the Bekimon Republic in one of his video..

Here, he detailed his "plans" for his gay-speaking constituents -- from placing flowers along the streets to turning every establishment into a pink parlor . To gays who are still afraid to admit their true sexuality, he said in jest: "Babalatan kayo nang buhay (You will be skinned alive).

Jejemon Usually seen around social networking sites such as Friendster , facebook and Multiply, it is the way that they can change the spellings and pronounciation of the words , other sometimes use it in terms of typing but in the way of talking or speaking they can’t really use it .

jejemons are individuals with low IQs who spread around their idiocy on the web by tYpFing LyK diZS jejejeje, making all people viewing their profile raise their eyebrows out of annoyance. Normal people like you and me must take a Bachelor of Arts in Jejetyping in order to understand said individuals, as deciphering their text would cause a lot of frustration and hair pulling.

CAUTION: THESE INDIVIDUALS ARE BREEDING! THEY CAN BE SEEN WRECKING GRAMMATICAL HAVOC ON FACEBOOK TOO! 2) Jejemons are not just confined to trying-hard Filipino gangsters and emos. A Jejemon can also include a variety of Latino-Hispanic fags who enjoy typing "jejejejeje" in a wider context, much to the disdain of their opponents in an internet . 3) Basically anyone with a low tolerance in correct punctuation, syntax and grammar. Jejemons are usually hated or hunted down by Jejebusters or the grammar nazi to eradicate their grammatical ways.

a person WhO tyPeZ lYKeS tH1s pfOuh..

whether you are RICH, MIDDLE CLASS or POOR ifpK eU tYpE L1K3 tHiS pfOuh..

eU are CONSIDERED AS JEJEMON.

- a person who is very expert in typing..

- a person that nevr gets tired of typing consonants in all of his comments...

- people with very LOW IQ

- a person that destroys the morale of language in any typing media like internet,cellphones...etc...

- a person you want to fuck off and kill

- an emo/gangster who owns all the possible negative qualities of a person.

- is the derrogative term used for a certain categorized kind of people.They type JEJEJE or JEJEJE when they want to express laughing in written words, which happen more than often. This is why we call them jejes.

WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF JEJEMON PEOPLE?

Sign that it is a jeje you are dealing with is that he (they are most commonly masculine) seems to have low intelligence. This is because :

1. they can not express themselves in the English language as good as an average person

2. It seems that their kind is simply dumber.

3. Their names are also often begun with "El" then followed with a random spanish or portuguese word.

4. they put too much letters and symbols in everyword they say even in their god damn NAMES or ALYASES

Taken from the internet / texting phrase " JEJEJEJEEJEJE " which states an act of laughing replaced with J because in other countries, J is pronounced as H. ( heheheheheheh )

Mon was is taken from Pokemon / pocket MONSTER.

They is the new generation of " jologs " who type in an annoying manner eg. " sticky caps " and changing some letters into characters / number ( A = 4, E = 3, etc. )

They also have their own fashion such as wearing " Jeje Caps " which are caps that have a colorful design at the back and are not really worn appropriately, but only place on top of the Jejemon's head. They are also commonly found wearing oversized T-Shirts and loose and too large Capri pants.

In terms of taking pictures, they also have ' poses ' .

- The Peace sign

- The " Starbucks encounter " in which they take pictures of themselves in drinking obviously Starbucks

- Angles like: side view, super side view, over the top and holding fan signs

- The Rock Sign ( \m/ )

- The Upside-down peace sign

 Their some other people who are angry and hate with the jejemon , they are also know as

 JEJEBUSTER .. they anti-jejemon , they want to hunt down and bring down jejemons speak.

 jejebusters, are NOT grammar nazis. All we want is to remove jejemon speak/type/text. It devalues 

 the Philippine languange.

Jejemons and Bekimons share many myterious similarities. Like Jejemons, Bekimons hang around television and internet chatrooms, hoping on preying on full blooded Batanganese males, specifically the Kapeng Barako type. Due to scarcity, Bekimons have been forced to prey on their own kind. They were henceforth identified as a new strain - the Bi-Bekimons.

I already use and apply  the bekimon and jejemon Languages for me BEKIMON is better than the jejemon . We all know they not the same right to use , jejemmon can only make they words in typing but bekimon is maybe in typing and public speaking . I as a one of this generation i’m so very inquisitive about this happening as also a youth i ask myself if how they can avoid on making a changes in our words it’s so difficult to accepted the fact that some Filipinos didn’t love our own language , but im still hoping that theres have a chance like what Dr. Jose Rizal ( our country hero ) said ..

" ANG TAONG DI MARUNONG MAG MAHAL NG SARILING WIKA ,

 AY HIGIT PA SA MALANSANG ISDA " !

" THIRD SEX DISCRIMINATION "

The Supreme Court finally reversed a decision of the Commission on Elections (COMELEC) refusing party-list accreditation to "Ang Ladlad", a group representing the Filipino lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual (LGBT) sector. The Supreme Court voted 12-3 in its annual Summer session in Baguio City. The Supreme Court said the Comelec’s refusal to accredit the group on purely moral grounds amounts more to a statement of dislike and disapproval of homosexuals rather than a tool to further any substantial public interest. The Comelec had earlier barred Ang Ladlad from taking part on the May 10 elections in the grounds that it tolerated immorality and offended Christians and Muslims.

          Discrimination is a sociological term referring to the treatment taken toward or against a person of a certain group in consideration based solely on class or category. Discrimination is the actual behavior towards another group. It involves excluding or restricting members of one group from opportunities that are available to other groups .

           The Department of Justice abbreviated as DOJ, is the executive department of the Philippine government responsible for upholding the rule of law in the Philippines. It is currently under the leadership of Former Commission on Human Rights Chief, Secretary Leila de Lima. Goverment. Laws have a big responsibility to every individual because it is a system of rules, usually enforced through a set of institutions , Laws can shape or reflect politics, economics and society in numerous ways and serves as a primary social mediator of relations between people. In discrimintaion laws protect employees and applicants from age, race, gender, sexual orientation, disability, religion and a variety of other . here in philippines we don’t have a same sex marriage . Same-sex marriage is a legally or socially recognized marriage between two persons of the same biological sex or social gender. Same-sex marriage is a civil rights, political, social, moral, and religious issue in many nations. The conflict arises over whether same-sex couples should be allowed to enter into marriage, be required to use a different status (such as a civil union, which either grant equal rights as marriage, or limited rights in comparison to marriage), or not have any such rights. A related issue is whether the term "marriage" should be applied.

            The question is Why Same sex marriage is not allowed in the Philippines ? 

 Philippines is the only   Christian dominant country in Asia and it is 3rd in the World. Filipinos valued marriage a lot and respect its meaning and its purpose in the cycle of life. Furthermore Filipinos are applying in their culture the christian virtues and that includes marriage. Many lesbians and gays would say that if they are not given the rights to get married with their same sex lovers, they are descriminated or being abandon by their community. It is just a law in our moral understanding and a law also in the eyes of God, that same sex marriage is an immoral act of defying God's law to marriage.

         We all know that we are all different to each other .I think the most reason why discrimination happened because of having diffirent beliefs and believes that’s why we miss understand everyone said and act . and it also because of the influences of the others ..

          Discrimination have many effects to every individual . it also effects the physically, intellectually , socially and emotionally .. these are the Depression, Anger loss of self-esteem , Isolation , feeling stressed or unable to cope , And it also have a long term effects like loss of motivation , reduced individual rights , restricted opportunities , limited access to services ,mental illness caused by stress . the people who make discrimination to they fellowmen they really hurts the filling of them .. and because of that our country make down . and it probability destroyed the future of everyone ..

           There’s a lot of kinds of DISCRIMINATION . i am observed that majority of the people have they own experiences interms of the discrimination in the whole world . but I think discrimination is like poverty..it's a hindrance to achieving your goals..but positve persons can view this as their stimulus to become more competitive. Although at times as you can be a basher to racist people . everyone has they own capaticty to aid and lead them to be success and no one can have a rights stop it .but the only thing that i can say it doesn’ matter how we look , how we speak , what color we are it doesn’t matter what and who we are . because in the end were all the same on the inside. We all laugh , we all cry . we all feel joy , we all feel pain and even you are a man , a woman , lesbian or a homosexual were all creation of all mighty god so it’s about time we start looking on the inside , it’s time to stop discrimination !

MAHALAGA ANG BAKLA SA LIPUNAN ,

ISANG KATAWAN NGUNIT MAY

DALAWANG KATAUHAN ..